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Chicup · 11-04-2005, 10:57 PM

If you are looking to be friends first as a single male you can forget about it.

We were of the 'friends first' mentality as a couple but that QUICKLY passed as there is very little chance of becomming friends prior to swinging, when your intent IS to swing. Our best friends are swingers, but we were not great friends before we started playing. Hell our friendship really took several months to take hold, I can't imagine that working prior to play. If anything it would be a 'we don't want to play because it might ruin our friendship' situation.

So buck it up, go out and fuck some of these couples and maybe if that works out you will find some friends.

11-04-2005, 10:57 PM	#8 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Friends with others in the lifestyle? If you are looking to be friends first as a single male you can forget about it. We were of the 'friends first' mentality as a couple but that QUICKLY passed as there is very little chance of becomming friends prior to swinging, when your intent IS to swing. Our best friends are swingers, but we were not great friends before we started playing. Hell our friendship really took several months to take hold, I can't imagine that working prior to play. If anything it would be a 'we don't want to play because it might ruin our friendship' situation. So buck it up, go out and fuck some of these couples and maybe if that works out you will find some friends.