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montresor · 11-02-2005, 06:40 AM

Some questions: You said you find yourself thinking about sex with your bf's friend a lot. Is there the possibility that he's better in bed than your bf? I don't think you really get into that in your posts. Also, the roommate seems a rather shadowy character -- what are his thoughts on this arrangement? Does he have unexpressed feelings for you? Also, any clue as to the roommates thoughts on m2m bi activity?

Ms P and I went through a period of fantasizing about such a menage a trois, and even had a candidate lined up (!) but he wasn't exactly on the same page, and we realized a couple of things: how difficult it would be to find a guy who met all of our criteria (including being bi, hung huge, cute, good in bed, smart, talented, accomplished, professional in an alternative way, all of which our friend was) and just happened to be interested in a live-in threeway with a hot bi couple. We also realized how difficult it would be to maintain such an arrangement, as your experience shows.

Clearly, this is not something to try at home, kids, unless you're really, really advanced in communication and shared outlook.

11-02-2005, 06:40 AM	#13 (permalink)
montresor Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 78 Location: Cleveland Hts., OH Status: single male (w/swing partner) Swing Lifestyle Name:montresor	Re: Threesome Troubles Some questions: You said you find yourself thinking about sex with your bf's friend a lot. Is there the possibility that he's better in bed than your bf? I don't think you really get into that in your posts. Also, the roommate seems a rather shadowy character -- what are his thoughts on this arrangement? Does he have unexpressed feelings for you? Also, any clue as to the roommates thoughts on m2m bi activity? Ms P and I went through a period of fantasizing about such a menage a trois, and even had a candidate lined up (!) but he wasn't exactly on the same page, and we realized a couple of things: how difficult it would be to find a guy who met all of our criteria (including being bi, hung huge, cute, good in bed, smart, talented, accomplished, professional in an alternative way, all of which our friend was) and just happened to be interested in a live-in threeway with a hot bi couple. We also realized how difficult it would be to maintain such an arrangement, as your experience shows. Clearly, this is not something to try at home, kids, unless you're really, really advanced in communication and shared outlook.