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Originally Posted by SableOnBlond I'm sorry that this whole Pandora's Box was opened. As I was reading through the boards, which have been very enlightening, I saw a post saying that one reason a guy might suggest a MMF threesome is to get his girlfriend to open up to a MFF one, which seems to be the case for me. Although he isn't all that persistent, he has said things like I "owe" him a MFF now. That just really makes me angry. It seems like he offered up his best friend to me, like it was a favor, so that I would give him access to another girl. Frankly, I'm appalled. Although he says he "Wouldn't do anything, just watch..." It is plainly obvious that's only lip service. |
Let me get this right...It's ok for you to fulfill your MFM fantasy, while also having one-on-one sex with your roommate in secret....But you berate your boyfriend for wanting to have just one part of what you already are experiencing, the part that includes you, to boot? Yikes, that type of double standard is a prescription for disaster in any relationship, whether or not you participate in swinging.
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relationship, but there is something that makes me uneasy thinking that his friend may be a part of our lives forever. It's not that I'm against homosexuality, but knowing my boyfriend probably has sexual feelings for his best friend doesn't sit well with me. I think I'd prefer someone who lusts after only me. Thanks again for your insight, and I am always open to hearing more.
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Again, double standards. You profess your lust and feelings for your roommate, yet don't want your boyfriend to have that same freedom he affords you. I think you need to take a break from relationships in general and really think about what you want and value in your life, along with what you can offer/allow in return. Open communication with your partner is a must, and this seems to be lacking in your current relationship(s).