Thank You BodyScape02,
I have been
gun shy for awhile and you said it well.
However, she has admitted that she isn't a swinger but was hoping for our take on things. We gave her the swingers take and now it's up to her as to how she should treat this issue. If she wants to be a cheater...then more power to her.
She just won't get much action at a swingers party...if she tells the truth. HELP
Of course...truth be told...there are probably a lot of people who attend swingers functions under the guise of being a swinger when they may just be looking for this very kind of gal...if she were a swinger. Sounds like she just wants to hold onto the two guys she has presently and is either afraid to tell her BF that she likes his BF better than him or is truly interested in a poly relationship.
Time will tell...unbeknownest to us. We'll probably read about it in the papers.
Male D