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SnsualPrsuasion · 11-01-2005, 12:51 PM

We have a fun night coming up soon & my deal is this: We have no kissing boundaries, for both of us it is part of the turn on of the whole swinging thing. We feel like it is more erotic, and actually feel kind of funny if there's no kissing involved w/the other couple. (Doesn't mean we're knocking it, it's just not our preference) Our cpl interest is something we haven't run into before, he likes to kiss, she doesn't (FF is okay, but she doesn't kiss the other male) I realize ppl have boundaries, however, considering we don't have any on that issue, should I not kiss him just because she'd prefer not kissing my hubby? (I plan on talking to DH about it, just would like general feedback from y'all...) I don't NEED the kissing to feel the pleasure, but it's a definite PLUS to the whole experience. Or should I just keep that out of it so hubby doesn't feel left out? (He did say, teasingly, that if he doesn't get to kiss, then neither do I, hence we're going to be talking about it for sure before it happens....but have any of you run into this?)

11-01-2005, 12:51 PM	#1 (permalink)
SnsualPrsuasion Active Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: Ohio Status: Couple	MisMatched Kissing boundaries We have a fun night coming up soon & my deal is this: We have no kissing boundaries, for both of us it is part of the turn on of the whole swinging thing. We feel like it is more erotic, and actually feel kind of funny if there's no kissing involved w/the other couple. (Doesn't mean we're knocking it, it's just not our preference) Our cpl interest is something we haven't run into before, he likes to kiss, she doesn't (FF is okay, but she doesn't kiss the other male) I realize ppl have boundaries, however, considering we don't have any on that issue, should I not kiss him just because she'd prefer not kissing my hubby? (I plan on talking to DH about it, just would like general feedback from y'all...) I don't NEED the kissing to feel the pleasure, but it's a definite PLUS to the whole experience. Or should I just keep that out of it so hubby doesn't feel left out? (He did say, teasingly, that if he doesn't get to kiss, then neither do I, hence we're going to be talking about it for sure before it happens....but have any of you run into this?)