The Swingers Board - View Single Post - My wife has a double standard and may be cheating, too

montresor · 10-28-2005, 06:47 AM

Yep, been there on this end too. Ms P and I have had periods of separate sex with trusted fuck pals and no problems -- "Sex Freedom Nights," we call them. But there have been a couple of occasions -- and we've both been guilty -- when we each jumped at an opportunity and gave little thought to the issue of letting the other know; guess we figured we'd straighten it out later. Some rather serious conversations resulted, and now we stay in touch if playing separately, even if it's like the other night when P called while I was working late to say she was out with co-workers and she might have sex with one of them she's done on previous occasions. Even then, we both felt a little funny because of the last-minute nature of it, and I think were both relieved when she ended up not having sex and coming home early. It seems to work better if we plan ahead and both have "something to do" that evening!

But the situation described above is certainly different from this. It's a challenge on her part, and, I think, one that's designed to disrupt the marriage.

10-28-2005, 06:47 AM	#12 (permalink)
montresor Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 78 Location: Cleveland Hts., OH Status: single male (w/swing partner) Swing Lifestyle Name:montresor	Re: wife has double standard Yep, been there on this end too. Ms P and I have had periods of separate sex with trusted fuck pals and no problems -- "Sex Freedom Nights," we call them. But there have been a couple of occasions -- and we've both been guilty -- when we each jumped at an opportunity and gave little thought to the issue of letting the other know; guess we figured we'd straighten it out later. Some rather serious conversations resulted, and now we stay in touch if playing separately, even if it's like the other night when P called while I was working late to say she was out with co-workers and she might have sex with one of them she's done on previous occasions. Even then, we both felt a little funny because of the last-minute nature of it, and I think were both relieved when she ended up not having sex and coming home early. It seems to work better if we plan ahead and both have "something to do" that evening! But the situation described above is certainly different from this. It's a challenge on her part, and, I think, one that's designed to disrupt the marriage.