The Swingers Board - View Single Post - My wife has a double standard and may be cheating, too

seriously · 10-28-2005, 02:57 AM

I see everyone wants to go on about your lack of communication...
To my mind, if you have been in the life style for 9 years then I bet you guys know a thing or two about communicating. My spouse and I have been ver-r-r-ry clear with each other on this issue. A lie of any sort about an issue like this is dangerously close to cheating. This is one of the dangers in the lifestyle: playing with someone without the other's consent even though you might have done it last Tuesday with consent is cheating in my opinion. If you want to keep this together tell her you don't want anyone else for the time being and think you both should just work on your primary relationship, i.e. stay way from others. See if she is willing to work to keep it together.

Good luck, I sincerely hope it works out

-Seriously

10-28-2005, 02:57 AM	#11 (permalink)
seriously Active Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 21 Location: Louisville Status: M. Male	Re: wife has double standard I see everyone wants to go on about your lack of communication... To my mind, if you have been in the life style for 9 years then I bet you guys know a thing or two about communicating. My spouse and I have been ver-r-r-ry clear with each other on this issue. A lie of any sort about an issue like this is dangerously close to cheating. This is one of the dangers in the lifestyle: playing with someone without the other's consent even though you might have done it last Tuesday with consent is cheating in my opinion. If you want to keep this together tell her you don't want anyone else for the time being and think you both should just work on your primary relationship, i.e. stay way from others. See if she is willing to work to keep it together. Good luck, I sincerely hope it works out -Seriously