The Swingers Board - View Single Post - My wife has a double standard and may be cheating, too

Naughtycool · 10-27-2005, 09:28 PM

Thanks for all the input- Yes we have swung separately before, together, threesomes, etc., etc.- but things changed greatly with the semi-exclusive single fuck buddy she had and since then I have taken all the steps necessary to end situations like that- too bad she still won't come clean - are you all ready? Says tht is was my fault for the way I reacted- NORMALLY - like any husband would that see's some single guy try to dominate time with his wife!!! At any rate- the lastest episode does show me that she is more interested in taking care of herself when it comes to sex- apparently in -or out of the lifestyle boundaries-- We have greatly slowed down our attndance at events because YES! we do need to spend time re-creating the passion for each other that we had at the beginning of our lifesstyle adventures- Too many unanswered communications about what she really wants- I told her that since by her actions it is obvious that she still wants to play in the lifestyle- but by her not having any commitment to re-set ground rules ( that she orignally wanted and then broke) forces me to not participate in the lifestyle- I agree- no commitment to communication or consideration and no rules- makes me a non-player- thanks to all for your input-
Naughtycool

10-27-2005, 09:28 PM	#9 (permalink)
Naughtycool Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 17 Location: Mansfield, Ohio Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Naughtycool	Re: wife has double standard Thanks for all the input- Yes we have swung separately before, together, threesomes, etc., etc.- but things changed greatly with the semi-exclusive single fuck buddy she had and since then I have taken all the steps necessary to end situations like that- too bad she still won't come clean - are you all ready? Says tht is was my fault for the way I reacted- NORMALLY - like any husband would that see's some single guy try to dominate time with his wife!!! At any rate- the lastest episode does show me that she is more interested in taking care of herself when it comes to sex- apparently in -or out of the lifestyle boundaries-- We have greatly slowed down our attndance at events because YES! we do need to spend time re-creating the passion for each other that we had at the beginning of our lifesstyle adventures- Too many unanswered communications about what she really wants- I told her that since by her actions it is obvious that she still wants to play in the lifestyle- but by her not having any commitment to re-set ground rules ( that she orignally wanted and then broke) forces me to not participate in the lifestyle- I agree- no commitment to communication or consideration and no rules- makes me a non-player- thanks to all for your input- Naughtycool