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Originally Posted by Naughtycool ...basically there are no more rules in (or out)the lifestyle and that I could do whatever I wanted with whomever and she actually challenged me to find a sex partner- So opinions please- I she sincere or just talking out her ass because she might have some guilt? |
I think your marriage is going to hell in a U-Haul that's hitched to some other guys pick-up truck.
I think she's drawn a line in the sand and dared you to cross it.
I think if I were you I'd buy an hour with the best divorce attorney in your community and learn how to protect your assets. Then spend 15 minutes doing a brief consult with every
other attorney that's worth a damn, just so
she couldn't use them in the upcoming divorce. You don't have to file anything yet, just know where your vulnerabilities are, and what not protecting them could cost you.
But hey, that's just
my opinion, and I'll freely admit that I'm
not one who believes in rebuilding a relationship on a salvage title.
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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey I am not so sure that it is cheating, though I do see your point, WP. I think this is a case of boundaries becoming far too lax. |
It's
cheating, because he didn't give permission for her to do it. "Communication" may be important to a relationship, but it should never come at the expense of
consideration. It's not enough to tell your partner that you're
going to do something that you know will hurt them. The question of whether their "boundaries are too lax" is moot, because she's already made it clear to him that no matter where
his "boundaries" are, she's going to cross them with impunity.
You've been down this road with this woman before. It will only get worse from this point on.
Talk to the lawyer NOW, dude. You'll thank me later...