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On the other hand, if you have a total emotional commitment to another couple then you risk blurring the lines of commitment in your spousal relationship. Finding the balance among these extremes for you as a couple is one of the keys to being able to successfully enjoy having relationships outside the marriage both in the bedroom and out.
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It appears that many couples prefer not to have deep friendship and emotional commitment for this very reason. Are there two schools of thought here as far as swinging/swapping spouses for sex goes? Fitst says let us just swap spouses and have sex, friends we have and do not need any more. Other says friendship before swapping and engaging in sexual intercourse with the other couple. Is it OK to just fuck the other wife/husband without emotional commitment to avoid issues mentioned here? After all is'nt swinging supposed to mean recreational sex without emotional commitment!
We have many close friends whose wives I would love to have sexual intercourse with or simply fuck. For now we have both agreed to stay away from having sexual relationships with friends to avoid emotional complications.
Any thoughts pro/con?
