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Old 10-27-2005, 07:30 AM   #1 (permalink)
Naughtycool
Here to Stay
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Posts: 14
Location: Mansfield, Ohio
Status: couple
Swing Lifestyle Name:Naughtycool

Naughtycool hasn't quite let us get to know them yet.
Unhappy My wife has a double standard and may be cheating, too

Well folks - long time since last post- 9 years in lifestyle - and still learning!
Previously my wife had a semi- exclusive single party partner that got WAY too close for WAY too long- finally ended about a year ago due to the hassle-
Lst week an old friend and party partner of hers clled to take us to dinner- ended up that I had a late appt. and couldn't make it till later- talked to her and she said- "what if he wants to hve sex with me? to which I replied- is that such a stretch- what's the matter, aren't you a big girl? Can't you say no and she said -yes- no problem- call you later-
Two hours later she calls and says - don't know when I will be home there is stuff in the freeezer for you- Ok- HMMMM
Two more phone calls from her (at the restaurant) I am at home and long story short- over 2 hours more go by before she brings him home and SURPRISE! they had sex! Not pised about the sex but the fact that I wasn't informed before she got down to the deed! Basically behind my back!
We discussed it told her I was hurt becasue she did not let me know and we planned on the next Sat. to have a date night at home alone- which ended up being changed by her- the converstation that took place that night was that basically there are no more rules in (or out)the lifestyle and that I could do whatever I wanted with whomever and she actually challenged me to find a sex partner- So opinions please- I she sincere or just talking out her ass because she might have some guilt? Quite confused
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