Looking back, we have been targeted in a blunted manner three times. Once it was a couple that we felt were heavily scheming when they 'hit' us. The second time, I actually noticed the couple whispering hurriedly between themselves before they came at us again and the third time it was by a couple we were attracted to. Needless to say, it was a thrill when the third couple pointed came on to us and seduced us
. The others rather immedietely turned us off.
We DO NOT enter a swing club or party and between us "plan" attacks. We dance and flirt and see who clicks. If it clicks, we pursue a bit, if they withdraw or seem disinterested we move on. We take the hint and others seem to too. The idea of 'targeting' heavily is all wrong for us. If you are targeting then you are focused more on the play time (not that we don't enjoy that too!!!), but we like to keep to playing with friends... not people we do not know, hence have to target us.
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