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TeamSoBe · 11-29-2002, 02:25 PM

This is from the male half of a couple that enjoys single males every once in a while.

There is no ritual, don't worry about being so formal or else you're going to look a little neurotic and that's a big turn-off. Just try to be act comfortable and confident, and be sure to acknowledge the guy and let him be in charge. They know that you are there because you are interested in fucking the woman, so you don't have to put on a big act and pretend like you're there to be hubby's best friend. Your responsibilities are simple:

1) Respect the woman and make her feel attractive and special.
2) Let the man be in charge if he wants to be, he has final say over you.
3) Don't cause any problems or create any drama.

If you can do those things then you will probably get laid. If you all three well then you might get laid over and over with the same couple. Screwing up any one of those three things is an automatic disqualification. Acting overly formal and self-conscious is a violation of rule #3. It's going to make you look a little 'off' and that's a warning sign for potential drama that couples learn to avoid when they look for single guys. Which one of them you make eye contact with first and what you call them when you first say hello is far less important than whether or not you seem like a neurotic weirdo.

11-29-2002, 02:25 PM	#2 (permalink)
TeamSoBe Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 507 Location: South Beach, Florida Status: M. Half of Couple	This is from the male half of a couple that enjoys single males every once in a while. There is no ritual, don't worry about being so formal or else you're going to look a little neurotic and that's a big turn-off. Just try to be act comfortable and confident, and be sure to acknowledge the guy and let him be in charge. They know that you are there because you are interested in fucking the woman, so you don't have to put on a big act and pretend like you're there to be hubby's best friend. Your responsibilities are simple: 1) Respect the woman and make her feel attractive and special. 2) Let the man be in charge if he wants to be, he has final say over you. 3) Don't cause any problems or create any drama. If you can do those things then you will probably get laid. If you all three well then you might get laid over and over with the same couple. Screwing up any one of those three things is an automatic disqualification. Acting overly formal and self-conscious is a violation of rule #3. It's going to make you look a little 'off' and that's a warning sign for potential drama that couples learn to avoid when they look for single guys. Which one of them you make eye contact with first and what you call them when you first say hello is far less important than whether or not you seem like a neurotic weirdo.