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Old 10-25-2005, 11:20 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Smile Re: Any men changed from straight to bi/curious since starting to swing?

OK, I'm a single (but attached) female exploring swinging with my significant other. Before I met him I interacted with a lot of single guys in this lifestyle, online, on the phone, and some in person. It has been my experience that the guys who are into this lifestyle are a lot less homophobic than the general population of guys who aren't into swinging. The idea of being in the same room with another naked aroused male is very threatening to a lot of guys outside the swinging community but a given within the lifestyle.

Having said that, I have a fantasy about two guys together in a threesome situation - some m/m - with a female (that would be me lol) but the guys are both straight. Let me explain....I used to think two seeing two guys together would be really really hot but after getting to know one single guy who was straight in his profile but way more than bi in reality, I discovered that when a guy leans toward being gay as in saying beforehand that he loves women but in a threesome situation would love to suck a cock (especially if it's been inside me first) and would be open to anal with a guy in the same situation, it was a turn off. I found through that that my fantasy has more to do with a guy who is truly straight but comfortable enough with his masculinity to be open to incidental (or a little more than incidental) contact in a mfm situation. Who is so into the moment and so turned on that he lets things happen/does things he wouldn't have done otherwise. A straight guy who will go down on me after another guy has cum in me (huge fantasy, not bi but certainly not homophobic), who will maybe in the heat of the moment let another guy fuck me while we are in a 69 position with me on top. This is a big fantasy, I don't want him to suck another guy's cock, but there will be some incidental contact in a situation like that involving licking more than likely. I think that is SO yummy. A guy who's not afraid to touch another guy's cum on me or who loves sloppy seconds and cream pies. I don't consider that bi but the idea of it turns me on a lot. Even a man who's comfortable guiding the other guy's penis into me if it slips out or who's comfortable with his cock touching the other guy's cock inside me in a double penetration kind of thing. The fantasy that gets me off everytime right now is this: The guy I'm dating and I are in a mfm and the attention is focused on me entirely facelick . We have all kinds of foreplay, both sucking my breasts, a lot of kisses from my guy, etc. One going down on me while I suck the other guy. Then I suck them both at the same time, one then the other, holding both cocks in my hands. I have their cocks like an inch from each other while I suck them and even let them barely touch as I take one in my mouth and then the other (Very hot to me btw). Then we attempt a double vaginal with me on top of the other guy (who can't be very big lol) and my bf behind me. Both guys are loving it. My bf cums inside me first and pulls out leaving the other guy inside me and then slides a finger or two into my pussy while the other guy and I are still fucking. I usually come by this point, my fantasy gets no further lol. But that's the one that really works for me right now. So it's kind of a bi fantasy, but kind of not because neither guy in my fantasy is bi. Just open to the moment. The thought of two guys kissing or hugging is a huge turn off though as is straight out oral, one guy on his knees in front of the other guy...submissive guys are a big turn off to me, maybe that's why. A guy with a cock in his mouth or on the receiving end of anal is putting himself in a submissive position.

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