The question can we be friends in the bedroom and out of the house really got my attention.
When we started talking about swinging, one of our steadfast rules was that we had to be friends long before we went any further. Our attitude is that we dont have to have sex to be friends with someone, but we have to be friends to have sex with them. Since we got into the lifestyle 3+ years ago, we have made many great friends, some we have played with, and some we havent. Either way, we know that we can socialize with any of them with no expectations when we do get together.
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