It is a simple fact of life... opposites do not attract... like seeks out like... if you are representative of only 2% ( models and the uber fit ) of society... then that is about the percentage of people you will find like you in any given situation.
Either way... hold to your standards...and search out what are comfortable playmates for you. You should never be forced to do anyone you do not find attractive. Simple as that.
In-so-far as club reviews go... remember... they are commenting on ONE night... hardly a valid sampling of what a club is... the type of people attending will ebb and flow... and yes... clubs eventually develop a core population that usually represents the closest population center, and is somewhat indicative of the owners ( big clue…meet the owners if you can… you will get a feel for the real heart of a club.. the owners of the club closest to us are really incredible people), but there are always new people attending … so the dynamic is fluid.
Fact is ... if you are picky you will play less than those who are indiscriminate... Then again...if you are picky you would rather have one great pair of monolo's than try on 100 pairs from payless. Your best bet is to ask another couple you like to meet you there… so you have a posse to hang out with. Safety in numbers sort of thing.
Go with someone you love and have fun... flirt and dance... There have been nights when I flirted with only Mr. Body...(he was the only one I found attractive)... they were some of the best nights of our lives.
Remember- There is something for everyone... and if "seeing" obese people naked upsets you... do what I do... DON"T LOOK ... and try to be polite… lol.
~Cat the far less than perfect
