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Ripley & Ender · 10-24-2005, 09:50 PM

We've just started looking into swinging, so we're still really new to this, but it seems like a lot of swingers warn each other against swinging with close friends or being very close to the people you swing with. Is this true? Is this something to worry about?
A lot of the attraction in swinging *for us* is the thought of finding a couple as close & tight as we are, and becoming very close to them too. We really enjoy our relationship, and we enjoy sharing it with other people, and the idea of sharing that with an equally close couple who shares their relationship with us too is very appealing.
But reading some on these forums seems to indicate that there may be some pitfalls with this idea?
Other than the normal risks of any close relationship, what should we be looking out for?

10-24-2005, 09:50 PM	#1 (permalink)
Ripley & Ender Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 19 Location: ohio Status: Couple	Close swinging relationships We've just started looking into swinging, so we're still really new to this, but it seems like a lot of swingers warn each other against swinging with close friends or being very close to the people you swing with. Is this true? Is this something to worry about? A lot of the attraction in swinging for us is the thought of finding a couple as close & tight as we are, and becoming very close to them too. We really enjoy our relationship, and we enjoy sharing it with other people, and the idea of sharing that with an equally close couple who shares their relationship with us too is very appealing. But reading some on these forums seems to indicate that there may be some pitfalls with this idea? Other than the normal risks of any close relationship, what should we be looking out for?