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Originally Posted by ANGEDKY(mr) Glad you responded and thankyou,
So where does the root of your hurt and anger lie, And how does that compare to his motivations for the "rule" in question?
Also, i cant help but notice that in discussing kissing it was "no, and the reason is................." yet in cum shots it was "no, hell no, its mine" To me the diffrences in these statments are perplexing and would warrant more thoughts and questions, but thats just my overly analytical way of thinking |
So where does the root of your hurt and anger lie??
I guess to me, the root of my hurt & anger I feel is because this was such an important issue/rule TO HIM when we were orginally discussing it, he was so very adimtt that those body spots were his and to be reserved for him and him alone.
And how does that compare to his motivations for the "rule" in question?
I'm not too sure what your asking.... I can't read his mind, but I can safey say that perhaps his motivation for that rule is, he didn't want HIS space violated.
OR that LIKE with the other poster on here who was about to do anal with the other guy and her husband got up, got dressed, walked out and yelled at her the whole way home and here anal hadn't even been discussed as a no no, it was found out the hard way.
I guess when I really think about it, my hurt & anger were due to the fact that I felt like,,, he needs and desires to keep spots on me for himself, ok, but yet he had no forethought for me or himself when it came down to him keeping what is needed that makes those spots on me so sacret to him.
I don't think I made much sence out of what I just said.