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pacpl4funn · 10-21-2005, 09:25 AM

just one more thing before I head out to work,

The swap with this other cpl,

neither of us had any expereince in doing this, this was a first time,
it was unknown territory for us, I didn't know how I would handle the other woman thing, hubby didn't know how I would handle it either.

Many here say I'm all about controling, and that's not true, control is not the issue, for me, truth is.... it's about love, trust, caring, safety, concern & respect for your spouse.

I read in a different post about a women who was blind-folded in the B&D room for the first time, and couldn't see her husband, and she freaked. She was in unknown territory, just as I was.

Thank You for all the responces, I take them all to heart, and even those that were very harsh and unfeeling too, you have ALL actually helped me to see things that I didn't see before.

pacpl4funn

10-21-2005, 09:25 AM	#33 (permalink)
pacpl4funn Active Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 29 Location: PA	Re: 1st time swap and DH forgets OUR rules What to do?? just one more thing before I head out to work, The swap with this other cpl, neither of us had any expereince in doing this, this was a first time, it was unknown territory for us, I didn't know how I would handle the other woman thing, hubby didn't know how I would handle it either. Many here say I'm all about controling, and that's not true, control is not the issue, for me, truth is.... it's about love, trust, caring, safety, concern & respect for your spouse. I read in a different post about a women who was blind-folded in the B&D room for the first time, and couldn't see her husband, and she freaked. She was in unknown territory, just as I was. Thank You for all the responces, I take them all to heart, and even those that were very harsh and unfeeling too, you have ALL actually helped me to see things that I didn't see before. pacpl4funn