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pacpl4funn · 10-20-2005, 03:03 PM

did he know that during the 3sums with other guys that I was holding myself back???? Yes he did, and it took me awhile too, It wasn't until I was comfortable knowing he was truly ok that I COULD even really enjoy it.

The mfm 3sums was new, we had never done it, so I was proceeding with extreme caution.... You know that old saying, do unto others as you would have them do unto you???

That is my feeling on all this and his too, but somewhere during that night, he lost touch with that...

So of course it's natural of me to presume he would give me the same care and consideration as I gave him. Just I got the shitty end of the stick and now I don't know what to do with it. LOL

10-20-2005, 03:03 PM	#16 (permalink)
pacpl4funn Active Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 29 Location: PA	Re: 1st time swap and DH forgets OUR rules What to do?? did he know that during the 3sums with other guys that I was holding myself back???? Yes he did, and it took me awhile too, It wasn't until I was comfortable knowing he was truly ok that I COULD even really enjoy it. The mfm 3sums was new, we had never done it, so I was proceeding with extreme caution.... You know that old saying, do unto others as you would have them do unto you??? That is my feeling on all this and his too, but somewhere during that night, he lost touch with that... So of course it's natural of me to presume he would give me the same care and consideration as I gave him. Just I got the shitty end of the stick and now I don't know what to do with it. LOL