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Originally Posted by tulippe44 I have to say that I disagree with evilmj on a few points. I have been married for a few years and sexually active for a few  years before that. I have never let a man cum in my mouth and they have all known that that was a no-no for me. Never have I had someone disrespect that rule. I have always had warning. I have issues with some body fluids(I'm working on it ) However, if this "rule" was put into place by a couple it should always be respected. One of the things I have seen consistenly on this board is respect the rules and that most newbies have more rigid rules in the beginning. I don't think this is an unrealistic rule and would be furious if it was my dh but I would get over it. Although I still think that the origianl poster could be mistaken in what was seen. |
I think I may have not been clear on this point but I said I could understand a rule of someone not cumming in a woman's mouth. I can certainly see where some women might find this distasteful (sorry for the pun). I feel when you go into swinging the idea is to have sex with other couples or singles but when you are getting too strict with the rules it is going to be difficult to enjoy yourself. I'm not 100% sure how it is for a man..not being one myself...but it must be difficult to have a good time and then suddenly have to pull out, then to top it off he has to be aware that if he doesn't get it out in time and starts to cum then his wife is going to be angry and see it as being inconsiderate and hurtful. To me it seems either they are going to have to relax that rule a bit or accept that accidents can happen and it is not meant to hurt anyone.
I 100% agree that we have to have rules in place, and I am not saying that it is okay to break these rules, but I think in a situation where they are both new, he is getting excited by watching and hearing her enjoy herself, that he could not help himself and made a mistake. If you cannot forgive this mistake, or at least learn from it and move on, then I don't think you are going to enjoy swinging all that much.