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pacpl4funn · 10-20-2005, 02:37 PM

ok I got 2 versions from him for the comments; "not yet not yet",

1-
She was cumming and he was trying to delay cause her hubby said she's only good for one "O"---- So if that's the case, her cumming is what "trigger him" and so thererfore NOT the sights n sounds of me or what was going on with me then. Cause when we are in a 69, he gets me cumming and from that, he starts to cum. Hence a "trigger affect"...

2-
He felt he was getting close and trying to delay her for the reason above and pulled her off his cock, but that he didn't feel himself cum, that maybe a little pre-cum but not a full blown load.....

Now I was there, I saw what was hanging off his cock, and it wasn't pre-cum, and knowing her mouth had just been wrapped around his cock a second earlier, and knowing the amount of cum/or squirts, hence he came in her mouth, maybe not all, but definitly some.

Getting him to fess up is part of the problem, it's like, ok I see that the sun is shinning and he's trying to tell me it's dark outside. What do I beleive, what I am looking at?? Or what he's telling me???

What would you all do, and how would you handle this??

Do you walk away from everything? Bite the bullet and accept the fact that your feelings and emotions don't count?? Try again with better understanding and cross your fingers??? LOL

I dono, you tell me, what would you do in my shoes?

10-20-2005, 02:37 PM	#12 (permalink)
pacpl4funn Active Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 29 Location: PA	Re: 1st time swap and DH forgets OUR rules What to do?? ok I got 2 versions from him for the comments; "not yet not yet", 1- She was cumming and he was trying to delay cause her hubby said she's only good for one "O"---- So if that's the case, her cumming is what "trigger him" and so thererfore NOT the sights n sounds of me or what was going on with me then. Cause when we are in a 69, he gets me cumming and from that, he starts to cum. Hence a "trigger affect"... 2- He felt he was getting close and trying to delay her for the reason above and pulled her off his cock, but that he didn't feel himself cum, that maybe a little pre-cum but not a full blown load..... Now I was there, I saw what was hanging off his cock, and it wasn't pre-cum, and knowing her mouth had just been wrapped around his cock a second earlier, and knowing the amount of cum/or squirts, hence he came in her mouth, maybe not all, but definitly some. Getting him to fess up is part of the problem, it's like, ok I see that the sun is shinning and he's trying to tell me it's dark outside. What do I beleive, what I am looking at?? Or what he's telling me??? What would you all do, and how would you handle this?? Do you walk away from everything? Bite the bullet and accept the fact that your feelings and emotions don't count?? Try again with better understanding and cross your fingers??? LOL I dono, you tell me, what would you do in my shoes?