The Swingers Board - View Single Post - First Swap! DH forgot OUR rules! What to do??

pacpl4funn · 10-20-2005, 02:14 PM

To reinterate;

This was a first time total swap, he knew ahead of time ( I told him a few times when we were making the plans AND in the car on the way there) he knew our boundaries going in, (and so did the other cpl) hubby knew that I wanted us to try this, I also knew that this was something he wanted to try as well, but he also knew that I didn't know how I would handle it!

You said you made a mistake, with the anal , but did your hubby have to yank out your apology??? Did it take several days for you to say I'm sorry and actually sound like you meant it??? How did you prove to him that you would never make that mistake again???

So if your unsure of the outcome and you still want to do it, then tell me, what is the proper way to proceed???? Or does "fuck your partners feeling" apply here?

10-20-2005, 02:14 PM	#11 (permalink)
pacpl4funn Active Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 29 Location: PA	Re: 1st time swap and DH forgets OUR rules What to do?? To reinterate; This was a first time total swap, he knew ahead of time ( I told him a few times when we were making the plans AND in the car on the way there) he knew our boundaries going in, (and so did the other cpl) hubby knew that I wanted us to try this, I also knew that this was something he wanted to try as well, but he also knew that I didn't know how I would handle it! You said you made a mistake, with the anal , but did your hubby have to yank out your apology??? Did it take several days for you to say I'm sorry and actually sound like you meant it??? How did you prove to him that you would never make that mistake again??? So if your unsure of the outcome and you still want to do it, then tell me, what is the proper way to proceed???? Or does "fuck your partners feeling" apply here?