The Swingers Board - View Single Post - MOTW #14

hilltop · 10-20-2005, 12:38 PM

txduo -

1. Do you enjoy being in the swinging community as a single male? What are the positives? The negatives?

Honestly? Not really. I enjoy being single because it suits my independent nature but it makes it REALLY difficult in the swinging community. There is so much bad behavior out there that you have to rise above. There is a LOT of predjudice to fight and it can get very tiring to work against it.

2. Have you ever used a "ticket" to gain entry into "couples only" venues?

No,I haven't. I don't think I'd feel very good about myself doing that.
I've only been to a club once a long time ago and they really treated single males like criminals. It was prohibitively expensive as well. I prefer to connect with a smaller group o' like minded people for play.

3. What is your favorite form of play activity? MFM, FMF, etc.

MFM most definitely! There's something about that dynamic that just sends me!

4. What are your hobbies when you are not playing and not working?

I'm one o' those fellas whose work is also his hobby. But when I need a break I love to read and I really enjoy finding a good place to "people watch"! I used to have a product illustration business so I like to keep my hand in by doing illustration/image manipulation for friends and family. Custom B-day cards, family portrait montages that sort of thing.

5. How do you tell an interested party that you are not interested in them?

Mostly I try to gently let them know that there just doesn't seem to be any connection or chemistry.

10-20-2005, 12:38 PM	#10 (permalink)
hilltop Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 568 Status: single male	Re: MOTW #14 - Hilltop txduo - 1. Do you enjoy being in the swinging community as a single male? What are the positives? The negatives? Honestly? Not really. I enjoy being single because it suits my independent nature but it makes it REALLY difficult in the swinging community. There is so much bad behavior out there that you have to rise above. There is a LOT of predjudice to fight and it can get very tiring to work against it. 2. Have you ever used a "ticket" to gain entry into "couples only" venues? No,I haven't. I don't think I'd feel very good about myself doing that. I've only been to a club once a long time ago and they really treated single males like criminals. It was prohibitively expensive as well. I prefer to connect with a smaller group o' like minded people for play. 3. What is your favorite form of play activity? MFM, FMF, etc. MFM most definitely! There's something about that dynamic that just sends me! 4. What are your hobbies when you are not playing and not working? I'm one o' those fellas whose work is also his hobby. But when I need a break I love to read and I really enjoy finding a good place to "people watch"! I used to have a product illustration business so I like to keep my hand in by doing illustration/image manipulation for friends and family. Custom B-day cards, family portrait montages that sort of thing. 5. How do you tell an interested party that you are not interested in them? Mostly I try to gently let them know that there just doesn't seem to be any connection or chemistry.