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OhioCouple · 11-27-2002, 09:23 AM

This topic came up recently. Here is a link to that which may answer a few questions for you.

Have you ever faked an Orgasm?

Would you have rather had your husband lie to you and then you caught him in it later down the road? It sounds to me that he was being honest when asked a question. That is what a good relationship is built on. Honesty.

You said yourself there are times that you just can't achieve orgasm and you just move on, but you enjoy the sex anyway. Is it any less pleasurable for your husband to be looking into your eyes knowing that you are being fullfilled? I don't believe that one must have the ultimate every time to enjoy the pleasure, closeness and bonding that occurs when you are looking into your soul mates eyes. Sometimes that is pleasure enough.

I wouldn't in any way feel cheated if my husband was not able to achieve an orgasm or if he faked it. The closeness that we share when mating is most important as it is felt with love. The hugging, stroking, kissing are just as erotic as the final consummation.

I have faked orgasm myself several times with my husband and I did not feel the need to tell him so, nor did I want him to try to continue to hold off in an effort just to bring me over the top. I was no less aroused and the look in his eyes and the pleasure on his face was no less pleasurable for me than had I had an orgasm myself.

I think you are reading way to much into this. If you are making love 4-5 times a week and it is only happening 2 or 3 times a year, then you are indeed a very lucky woman.

Topic moved to "Sex Questions Forum"

Lori

11-27-2002, 09:23 AM	#2 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	This topic came up recently. Here is a link to that which may answer a few questions for you. Have you ever faked an Orgasm? Would you have rather had your husband lie to you and then you caught him in it later down the road? It sounds to me that he was being honest when asked a question. That is what a good relationship is built on. Honesty. You said yourself there are times that you just can't achieve orgasm and you just move on, but you enjoy the sex anyway. Is it any less pleasurable for your husband to be looking into your eyes knowing that you are being fullfilled? I don't believe that one must have the ultimate every time to enjoy the pleasure, closeness and bonding that occurs when you are looking into your soul mates eyes. Sometimes that is pleasure enough. I wouldn't in any way feel cheated if my husband was not able to achieve an orgasm or if he faked it. The closeness that we share when mating is most important as it is felt with love. The hugging, stroking, kissing are just as erotic as the final consummation. I have faked orgasm myself several times with my husband and I did not feel the need to tell him so, nor did I want him to try to continue to hold off in an effort just to bring me over the top. I was no less aroused and the look in his eyes and the pleasure on his face was no less pleasurable for me than had I had an orgasm myself. I think you are reading way to much into this. If you are making love 4-5 times a week and it is only happening 2 or 3 times a year, then you are indeed a very lucky woman. Topic moved to "Sex Questions Forum" Lori __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W. Last edited by OhioCouple : 11-27-2002 at 09:40 AM.