The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Problem with expectations of others at the club

CA91709 · 10-18-2005, 12:45 AM

Mr. CA posting...
Many of us Newbs to the lifestyle do see what at first appears to be contradictions. This is due no doubt to our lack of experience. I am sure with time there will come understanding of how contrary seeming positions are not really all that complicated.

Another point is how much one DWELLS on these things. The Mrs. and I believe the best thing to do is go with the flow. Just make sure that you pull out of the lifestyle in time if you think it is damaging your relationship.

10-18-2005, 12:45 AM	#22 (permalink)
CA91709 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 56 Location: California Status: Couple	Re: Problem at the club Mr. CA posting... Many of us Newbs to the lifestyle do see what at first appears to be contradictions. This is due no doubt to our lack of experience. I am sure with time there will come understanding of how contrary seeming positions are not really all that complicated. Another point is how much one DWELLS on these things. The Mrs. and I believe the best thing to do is go with the flow. Just make sure that you pull out of the lifestyle in time if you think it is damaging your relationship. __________________ "Some called her a bad girl. They didn't know how right they were." quote from the book The Real Bettie Page by Richard Foster