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hotblonde47 · 10-16-2005, 08:32 PM

Having been in "Lifestyle" for a couple of years and having visited a few nude/swinger resorts I have a question for both males and females on this site. It seems that men have no problem spending all kinds of money on their female partners in order to "enhance" their looks. Perms, dyes, botox, fillers, boob jobs, liposuction, butt enhancers etc. Not that the majority of women out there have had all or most of these done but .... the result in a nudist resort is an inordinate number of gorgeous females whereas the males of the same age group leave a lot to be desired! I know in the swinger scene a lot depends on the female/female attraction but what about us females that are turned on by the males .... where are the 40 something (and upward) well cared for males? Why don't the males consider spending some of that money on themselves? So for you guys - what makes you want to spend it on your partner but would not consider getting anything done for yourself? And for the females - would you like to see the guys do more with themselves? For the females who have had some "improvements" - is it difficult for you as a couple when you are staying young looking and he isn't?

10-16-2005, 08:32 PM	#1 (permalink)
hotblonde47 Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 82 Location: North Carolina Status: couple	Male/Female Improvements Having been in "Lifestyle" for a couple of years and having visited a few nude/swinger resorts I have a question for both males and females on this site. It seems that men have no problem spending all kinds of money on their female partners in order to "enhance" their looks. Perms, dyes, botox, fillers, boob jobs, liposuction, butt enhancers etc. Not that the majority of women out there have had all or most of these done but .... the result in a nudist resort is an inordinate number of gorgeous females whereas the males of the same age group leave a lot to be desired! I know in the swinger scene a lot depends on the female/female attraction but what about us females that are turned on by the males .... where are the 40 something (and upward) well cared for males? Why don't the males consider spending some of that money on themselves? So for you guys - what makes you want to spend it on your partner but would not consider getting anything done for yourself? And for the females - would you like to see the guys do more with themselves? For the females who have had some "improvements" - is it difficult for you as a couple when you are staying young looking and he isn't?