Re: DP, Couples, & The Disappearing Single Male I couldn't help but read this thread and giggle. You see, a MFM DP situation was how I started my life as a single guy in this lifestyle! Met a nice couple and things escalated from there. Yay!
I do agree that the probable reason for the bailouts (Which in my humble opinion is a chicken shit way of doing things) is the whole gay fear factor thing. But if you agree to show up and meet someone, you should at least meet them. Anything happening in the bedroom (or couch, table, or hanging from the chandelier) should be agreed upon by all parties, and if someone isn't conmfortable, then you make adjustments. On the other hand, if you showed up for an agreed upon DP session, you'd better come packin brother. |