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Originally Posted by HappyPeople But with sex comes some basic compatibility, the feeling of being comfortable (fitting in), and experience levels. When the age gap is shifted too far to the left or right of where we are, we just don't feel as comfortable as we'd prefer. Perhaps some may see us as being short sighted for preferring our peer group but that's just how it is for us. |
No one is saying you're short sighted or is trying to change your preferences. It is just obvious to us that limits limit, so to speak.
There are experiences you will never have because of those preferences. We all have parameters one way or another. It may be our misinterpretation of the original question, but sex-in-a-pile, as an example, is different from couple-to-couple or threesomes where there is inter-reaction beyond the sex. Parties where you're not necessarily playing together every moment or where the relationships are a superficial "Hi, how are you ?" kind of thing are not the same as a more intimate relationship with another couple or single.
There are situations that are purely sexual and then our preferences might not be as strictly adhered to.