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Originally Posted by tncinmd That's true if you're talking about friendship. You naturally want someone who has had similar experiences. That is rhe comfort level factor. We addressed the original question If Swinging is just for Sex, not ltr's. |
But with sex comes some basic compatibility, the feeling of being comfortable (fitting in), and experience levels. When the age gap is shifted too far to the left or right of where we are, we just don't feel as comfortable as we'd prefer. Perhaps some may see us as being short sighted for preferring our peer group but that's just how it is for us.