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Old 10-15-2005, 09:36 PM   #12 (permalink)
ManwithChica
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Location: Westcliffe, Colorado
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Default Re: If Swinging is just for SEX...why is age and weight such a factor?

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Originally Posted by Kali
I have to say I find older men extremely attractive(my husband is 16 yrs. older than I am ) What I find attractive isn't so much physical,though I do APPRECIATE beauty when I see it facelick What turns me on is INTELLECT, the sound of a voice, a LUST for adventuer...Kali
All of you have made some great points:

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Originally Posted by two4youinswva
people seem to GRAVITATE to those that are similar in age. I guess it's a COMFORT/FAMILIARITY thing...
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Originally Posted by Chicup
Since it IS about sex we go for couples we find sexy. PERSAONLITY MATTERS as well. Its all part of the big picture.
Some people are picky but we prefer to use the word SELECTIVE.

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Originally Posted by wiseguy2020
All I know is that somewhere along the line I learned that a woman has substance, that a woman is more than flesh and bones and giggles. Somewhere, some how, I learned that a woman is inside her brain first, then in her body. Then... low and behold, I discovered - around the same time that I started to find "girls" uninteresting - that a woman with some meat on her bones is more fun because they are the ones who tend to have the interesting brains.
I wil have to agree with you on that note Wiseguy.

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Originally Posted by VegasLee
Also, we all run through DRY SPELLS of not finding playmates. That is just life. We don't get concerned about it. We just keep going to the club and know that we WILL find some fun either way.
Dry spells come and go, you make the best of your own situation.

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Originally Posted by tncinmd
What doesn't change is our ENTHUSIASM, our ZEST FOR LIFE and our ENJOYMENT of all of life's PLEASURES. As a matter of fact they intensify and we enjoy and APPRECIATE them more. Well, that is for a lot of us it does. It doesn't really for those who invested themselves in some image of perfection. With that loss, often the pleasures of life turn to ash.
We have enjoyed the wonderful points and responses.
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