The Swingers Board - View Single Post - If Swinging is just for SEX...why is age and weight such a factor?

ManwithChica · 10-15-2005, 01:59 PM

We have been swinging for 4 yrs and we are veterans of the lifestyle. But lately we have run into a snag.

Dee and I have a great relationship, very open, we have no hang ups and we are very uninhibited. We aren't here to change our status or look for something better. We are here to share each other with others for an evening or one night. We are soul-mates that is a deeper connection than anyone could break.

Now, I'm in my 50's. Grey and bald, yet very active not a couch potatoe, take care of 70 acre ranch, chop wood, move bales of hay, avid horse rider, active hunter and hiker, I also do my real calling in life, shovel horse shit

Now I dont' have a hard six pack stomach like a 20 yr old but I am toned and height and weight proportioned. We have a small home gym I work out at 2 or 3 times a week. I have no problem with my male parts at my age. But a dead fuck doesn't turn me on or keep my cock hard.

My girl Dee she is in her 40's hispanic bifemale. (what man wouldn't want his girl to be bifemale?) Now she isn't a skinny mini and don't think I would want her that way. Yet, she is NOT overly obese and is NOT bed ridden. She hikes, workes out 4 to 5 days a week at a local gym, loves horses, love long walks, love to go hunting and shooting (she is my assistant), love to camp and fishing and loves going to titty bars with me. Yet, she loves her body, has no hang-ups and no inhibitions. She has been working hard to tone areas of her body--not for me--but for herself.

So with age comes experience and a woman who knows what she wants and not afraid to go after it turns men on.

So why does a man's age stop women from having fun?
Why does a real woman comfortable with herself and knows she can please a man--stop men?
When the only thing in common is having a great time having sex with others.

10-15-2005, 01:59 PM	#1 (permalink)
ManwithChica Registered Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Westcliffe, Colorado Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:DrippyNGushy	If Swinging is just for SEX...why is age and weight such a factor? We have been swinging for 4 yrs and we are veterans of the lifestyle. But lately we have run into a snag. Dee and I have a great relationship, very open, we have no hang ups and we are very uninhibited. We aren't here to change our status or look for something better. We are here to share each other with others for an evening or one night. We are soul-mates that is a deeper connection than anyone could break. Now, I'm in my 50's. Grey and bald, yet very active not a couch potatoe, take care of 70 acre ranch, chop wood, move bales of hay, avid horse rider, active hunter and hiker, I also do my real calling in life, shovel horse shit Now I dont' have a hard six pack stomach like a 20 yr old but I am toned and height and weight proportioned. We have a small home gym I work out at 2 or 3 times a week. I have no problem with my male parts at my age. But a dead fuck doesn't turn me on or keep my cock hard. My girl Dee she is in her 40's hispanic bifemale. (what man wouldn't want his girl to be bifemale?) Now she isn't a skinny mini and don't think I would want her that way. Yet, she is NOT overly obese and is NOT bed ridden. She hikes, workes out 4 to 5 days a week at a local gym, loves horses, love long walks, love to go hunting and shooting (she is my assistant), love to camp and fishing and loves going to titty bars with me. Yet, she loves her body, has no hang-ups and no inhibitions. She has been working hard to tone areas of her body--not for me--but for herself. So with age comes experience and a woman who knows what she wants and not afraid to go after it turns men on. So why does a man's age stop women from having fun? Why does a real woman comfortable with herself and knows she can please a man--stop men? When the only thing in common is having a great time having sex with others.