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L&R · 10-14-2005, 01:14 PM

My question for you, L, is this: What is more important to you, swinging or your relationship with R?

{morning all} R isn't awake yet. Spoo(can I call you that?) R is definately more important, and he feels the same about me. I'm 24, he's 34 married twice, first 3yrs then 7yrs. I've met his ex, they are still friends she's 18 yrs his senior. I haven't been fortunate enough to have had any long-term relationships that have lasted more than a year. I seem to attract only jealous control-freak types, I guess I'm just in a hurry to find out if R is "as advertised" but not in a hurry to do the deed to find out. I'm getting older and don't want to "waste" anymore time on losers.

10-14-2005, 01:14 PM	#8 (permalink)
L&R Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 63 Location: Kylertown,pa Status: Couple-newbie	Re: Help Cool her Jets...Please! My question for you, L, is this: What is more important to you, swinging or your relationship with R? {morning all} R isn't awake yet. Spoo(can I call you that?) R is definately more important, and he feels the same about me. I'm 24, he's 34 married twice, first 3yrs then 7yrs. I've met his ex, they are still friends she's 18 yrs his senior. I haven't been fortunate enough to have had any long-term relationships that have lasted more than a year. I seem to attract only jealous control-freak types, I guess I'm just in a hurry to find out if R is "as advertised" but not in a hurry to do the deed to find out. I'm getting older and don't want to "waste" anymore time on losers.