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4 is better · 10-14-2005, 12:50 PM

My wife and I do prefer the separate room experience over the same room. Like you, we do not get excited seeing our spouse playing in the same room. We find it difficult to go at our pace (I can get into it rather quickly while my wife likes to get warmed up slowly) in a same room experience, one of us ends up going at a speed we don't like. Unfortunately, like you, most of the couples we have encountered only want same room play.

Separate room play allows you to go at your pace and there are no external distractions (sounds and visual) and allows to really get into our swing partner. Also, my wife says it feels like cheating with permission (a turn for her) I just wish there were couples willing to do it.

10-14-2005, 12:50 PM	#4 (permalink)
4 is better Registered Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 3 Location: hobart, in	Re: Same room, seperate rooms? My wife and I do prefer the separate room experience over the same room. Like you, we do not get excited seeing our spouse playing in the same room. We find it difficult to go at our pace (I can get into it rather quickly while my wife likes to get warmed up slowly) in a same room experience, one of us ends up going at a speed we don't like. Unfortunately, like you, most of the couples we have encountered only want same room play. Separate room play allows you to go at your pace and there are no external distractions (sounds and visual) and allows to really get into our swing partner. Also, my wife says it feels like cheating with permission (a turn for her) I just wish there were couples willing to do it.