[txduo2000]

It's not generally too difficult to come by folks that play in separate rooms. We come across that alot. We have, in fact, been turned down by those who prefer it because we prefer same room.

But, it has been our experience that many of those who prefer separate room are generally seasoned swingers, and they generally prefer their play partners to be seasoned as well, simply because for many, playing in separate rooms does tend to open things up for more jealousy.

For us, we are in this together, so we want to experience everything together. I think, for us, we would have bigger concerns about jealousy if we were in separate rooms, just because we each would not be privy to what all our partner was experiencing.