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Originally Posted by L&R Having a problem here. L is in way too big a hurry to get us signed up with one of those profile sites, buy a camera and get us "in the system". (1) we've only been together a little over 5 months,(2) we haven't even found a good candidate couple for just "soft swinging" to begin with( she want's a virgin couple like her) I've suggested an experienced couple<
She says she wants to find out how many "offers" we will get, just wants to know how many want to fuck her. I've told her that's not right, at this point it would just be wasting other's time..being a cocktease like that. And I'm not really sure I want to hang us up there "like a piece of meat" on display in the window. I'm still looking at the privacy issues, discreation, etc. I just don't think it's time to take this step. We have fine communication skills<< |
Sounds like maybe swinging should be put on a back burner for a while. Maybe indefinitely. It's always best to err on the side of caution. If you're both interested in her apparent desire to be an exhibitionist, try a "hot wife" type of site. And when you do decide to try swinging, I WOULD recommend a more experienced couple. "Virgin" couples tend to have a lot of boundaries to deal with, whereas more experienced couples have got the kinks worked out, they know what they want, and they are 100% more relaxed. Our first couple we played with were much more experienced. They were mature enough to respect all our boundaries, understood if issues suddenly came up, and made us feel as comfortable as we reasonably could under the circumstances. First times are really exciting but are also hell on the nerves.