[Spoomonkey]

I was chatting with a friend today (virtually) who asked our MO on condoms. For us, condoms for penetration - not for oral...

I've heard the arguements both ways. Some people insist that oral without a condom is as risky as intercourse without a condom... I've read those people's posts and arguements and completely respect it.

But I have never met any of them...

When we meet people at the club and boundaries are discussed, we say we're condom only. And when we get to the room, it is like they understand our position. They dive into oral as eagerly as we do - and then roll on a condom at the appropriate moment.

I have never thought of it before, but it seems that "condoms only" is generally assumed to NOT include oral. Fine with us - but now that I think about it, I am surprised by the assumption.

What do you think?

Spoomonkey