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Originally Posted by REALCOLSCOUPLE Eventually that situation will arise with all the couples that you meet with more than 1 time. If you don't do 'one nighters' ( we don't ) then chances are that one of the four involved will get their feelings hurt. That 'compatibility' that we look for in other couples can turn real ugly,real fast. But breaking it off with other couples is definitly a part of swingging,sorry. |
I really wouldn't say all couples, or even most couples, but that can happen. We have been with couples a number of times where we found our compatibility dying off. That usually happens when you develop a relationship and really start to get to know someone. Their real personality comes out, and it may be a turn off. This just isn't for Swingers, this happens with new friends in general. You may really like someone when you first meet, but as you get to know them, you find you actually have less and less in common.
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Originally Posted by REALCOLSCOUPLE Because if you meet to many times or get to compatible, look out, somebody may fall in love. Ever been there? |
If you are worried about you or your partner falling in love with someone else, get out of the Lifestyle NOW! That thought has never come to mind with anyone we have been with. While we do believe you can love more than one person at a time (Polyamoury), we do not believe our love for each other will ever change.
No, we have never been there, nor will we play with people who even think like that. It brings out an underlying problem in their relationship that we just don't want to get involved with. We did learn that one the hard way many years ago.
Carol xoxoxo