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Originally Posted by REALCOLSCOUPLE Eventually that situation will arise with all the couples that you meet with more than 1 time. If you don't do 'one nighters' ( we don't ) then chances are that one of the four involved will get their feelings hurt. That 'compatibility' that we look for in other couples can turn real ugly,real fast. But breaking it off with other couples is definitly a part of swingging,sorry. Because if you meet to many times or get to compatible, look out, somebody may fall in love. Ever been there? |
[ R here] Sorry, but I object. It sounds like you're saying you don't do 1 nite stands, just 3 or 4 night stands. Please clarify. We'd probably not wish to swing at all with a couple that is streight forward (like this) . It sounds like, you are just hitting it while it's new and moving on as soon as the new wears off. The main points are (1) with the 'One niters's' atleast they are usually honest about it...I like to call them "big game hunters" they are just out for a quick fun roll in the hay then you can hear the tires squeal as they pull out of the motel parking lot and they are off on their next big adventure<<no harm no foul. Now people sometimes get alittle drunk and do things they later regret like in the case above but what I'm infering from your post is that you intentionally toy with couples awhile...lead them to believe you are developing a mutual swinging "friendship" then ween them off, cut them out, or discard them and it's pre-planned. Sounds like a "self-defense" mechanism at work here. Long and short of it....we would rather be with the one niter or with a couple that are interested in building a long-term relationship. Sorry.