 Re: Problem at the club
I agree with just putting them off each time but if they are very persistent you may have to consider being more direct with them.
It is so difficult to hurt someone ( or fear that we may hurt them) but we have to realize that you are hurting them more in the long run by leading them on.
Hubby is very good at wording things like this so he usually handles the rejection but it's always something like..."we really enjoyed that night, but we just don't feel the chemistry is right between all us and would rather just remain friends so feelings aren't hurt in the future" |