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Originally Posted by b&J69 Greetings all, we hae been in the lifestyle for almost 6 years and of course it has been a learning experience. Our latest dilemma is as follows.
We were at our favorite on premise club, wound up in a group thing. One of the couples that were involved neither of us really have any chemistry with, we were in that situation and had a decent buzz on and wound up playing with them anyway. In normal circumstances, we would not have gone there. They are nice people and all that, but they are just not our type. Now whenever we see them at the club, they seem to think repeat performances are the norm and expected. He especially pounces on the Ms when he sees her. We like them and think they are nice people, we just don't want to go there again and don't want to offend them. But we want nothing more than socializing. How the heck do we let them know without offending them? It's enough that we have mostly been avoiding going back there. |
I have a thread similar to this that I posted a couple of weeks ago. The problem is that I am an idiot
and I don't know how to put the link here so that I can direct you to it.
I didn't get but one response, and that was, I am sure, because it's the only response that could be given ... and that is, hard as it is, you have to be honest and forthright and let them know.
In a nutshell, basically our issue is that we have never played with a certain couple, but we have been friends for some time. We don't want to play with them; they do want to play with us.
And really, the only way to put an end to the flirting and inuendos coming from them is to come right out and tell them. But, we have not been brave enough to do that yet.
(Let me give this a try ...
this is the thread to which I referred.)
THANKS JULIE!
