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Thanks angel...I was kidding about "my insight" thing...lol...no worries

Regarding the 2nd question, I'd have to agree again with Eternally and say that I'd want that comfort level too before proceeding. If it was more than just a MFM I would have to "without a doubt" get comfortable and let not just the couple know what I'm comfortable with but the other males also. I guess being still new and relatively inexperienced might be an intimidation factor for me with at least 2 other males around...the mentality of "not wanting to disappoint".

And just to hit on something Angel had said...in my limited experience, performance anxiety was an issue at first because I didn't allow myself to be completely(100%) comfortable with my surroundings...most likely b/c of my nerves. Even now, having had some experiences, I still get that "fast heartbeat" or the shaking hands for a min when I start something new.