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J & K · 10-11-2005, 05:01 PM

Being a male things don't always work when you want them to. Also, there are times when you don't want to get a hard on and it happens.

When reading about this the thought of your husband having to stop was interesting. You have your rules and it is ok to follow them. I kept thinking there is going to be a time that you are hot into the sex with another man/woman and your husband has had too much to drink or a bit nervous with a hot chic and comes up to you and says, "Stop honey...I am having erection problems". LOL

Those men who say they never have problems getting an erection....well....there will be a time it will happen.

First time meetings naked and with booze in the system try soft swap all together and once it heats up more MAYBE a full swap. Being with your own S/O first to warm up with make it easier to move onto another person.

In my book if erection problem happens all night I might as well use my other functions to please a lady. You say you aren't oral? Well then have him masterbate you and use toys if you have them. A limp dick don't mean the whole night is over. It is only over if you make it and if you make the other men feel bad for being limp with you it will happen again because you concentrated that flaw into the open for them.

I remember a few times a certain lady expected me hard once my clothes came off and she mentioned it very boldly. The pressure to be hard was on now and it didn't want to go up at all no matter how much she touched it. After that everytime I see her that night plays out in my mind and when we all get naked I don't care to get hard sub-mentally because she down graded the event that ALL MEN SHOULD BE HARD seeing her naked. So if you meet these guys again and they fail to perform it might be what you said to them to prevent it from happening....hopefully it don't happen at all.

BTW--start early in the night to play and keep the drinking to a min. That might help...who knows if the booze and late hours were dragging the men's bodies into the "ZZZZZZ's" mode.

10-11-2005, 05:01 PM	#20 (permalink)
J & K Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 192 Location: Middle GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:OKC_CPL	Re: 3 bad experiences, need help Being a male things don't always work when you want them to. Also, there are times when you don't want to get a hard on and it happens. When reading about this the thought of your husband having to stop was interesting. You have your rules and it is ok to follow them. I kept thinking there is going to be a time that you are hot into the sex with another man/woman and your husband has had too much to drink or a bit nervous with a hot chic and comes up to you and says, "Stop honey...I am having erection problems". LOL Those men who say they never have problems getting an erection....well....there will be a time it will happen. First time meetings naked and with booze in the system try soft swap all together and once it heats up more MAYBE a full swap. Being with your own S/O first to warm up with make it easier to move onto another person. In my book if erection problem happens all night I might as well use my other functions to please a lady. You say you aren't oral? Well then have him masterbate you and use toys if you have them. A limp dick don't mean the whole night is over. It is only over if you make it and if you make the other men feel bad for being limp with you it will happen again because you concentrated that flaw into the open for them. I remember a few times a certain lady expected me hard once my clothes came off and she mentioned it very boldly. The pressure to be hard was on now and it didn't want to go up at all no matter how much she touched it. After that everytime I see her that night plays out in my mind and when we all get naked I don't care to get hard sub-mentally because she down graded the event that ALL MEN SHOULD BE HARD seeing her naked. So if you meet these guys again and they fail to perform it might be what you said to them to prevent it from happening....hopefully it don't happen at all. BTW--start early in the night to play and keep the drinking to a min. That might help...who knows if the booze and late hours were dragging the men's bodies into the "ZZZZZZ's" mode.