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dudleydoesit2 · 10-11-2005, 01:08 PM

I'm widowed now and I'm not about to get married again. My wife and I were active in the lifestyle for more than 18 years and enjoyed it immensely but, since I no longer live in the same location, our old acquaintances are too far distant and although I would like to continue these activities, I have found that single males are more or less ignored on the swinger sites. Looking back on things, while three was our favorite number, the threesomes we had were virtually always with a male or female who was part of a couple that we had previously partied with and the other spouse always knew and approved. Bringing in a single woman was a frequent occurance but it was a rare occasion that we would ever bring a single male into the mix. Now that I'm on the single male end of the stick, although I'm greatly disappointed at the lack of acceptance, I do understand why I'm on the outside looking in.

10-11-2005, 01:08 PM	#216 (permalink)
dudleydoesit2 Registered Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Eastern Shore, MD	Re: No single males? Why not?? I'm widowed now and I'm not about to get married again. My wife and I were active in the lifestyle for more than 18 years and enjoyed it immensely but, since I no longer live in the same location, our old acquaintances are too far distant and although I would like to continue these activities, I have found that single males are more or less ignored on the swinger sites. Looking back on things, while three was our favorite number, the threesomes we had were virtually always with a male or female who was part of a couple that we had previously partied with and the other spouse always knew and approved. Bringing in a single woman was a frequent occurance but it was a rare occasion that we would ever bring a single male into the mix. Now that I'm on the single male end of the stick, although I'm greatly disappointed at the lack of acceptance, I do understand why I'm on the outside looking in.