[joplin]

Ok, let me clarify that I am not standing up and saying "Stop" and everyone stops what is going on. What I mean by stopping my husband is by saying that I am giving him the "I am not happy with this situation, let's switch back" signal. He'll nod and one of us will say we want to switch back. When we switch back, I will then please him in whatever way he wants it. Please don't think that I am making it all stop completely. That would be terribly wrong of me to say that everyone had to stop because I am not having a good time. We just switch back to our spouses. Now, in the third situation, I kind of did pull him away from a fun time in order to come back to me, however the other male stopped everything all together. In the first two situations, the other couples seemed ok with going back to their spouses, but in the third situation, the male just made it stop all together due to his limp situation. I just made him stop having fun with the other female, which I know is wrong, but understand that this was the third limp situation I had been in, and I was getting upset and didn't know what else to do. We are just very new to the lifestyle, and it is all a huge learning experience. Just wanted to clarify that.