Re: How Soon Do You Reveal All? We discuss our Lifestyle choices early on. We aren't ever trying to say, "See it our way, or go away", we just want people to know what we are about sexually. We are as Full Swing, Hard, or whatever term you want to use as you can get. But we can as easily play Soft as we can Hard. We enjoy mixing things up, and we like to involve ourselves in various ways to play.
But we have found that many "Soft Swing" couples prefer not to get involved with anyone who goes fully Hard. Therefore, we bring that right out front. We have no problems with Soft Swingers, and count many as very good friends. For us, it's all about the respect, not what your Lifestyle Choices are.
Danny & Carol |