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Ok thanks for clearing that up.

On the down side, saddly I can't help you beyond that as I can get it up like a porn star apparently (audiance doesn't matter). Its not a brag, I never had any clue that some men had issues with getting it up that weren't due to physical problems prior to many posts where men were stating they had performance issues while swinging.

Now this brings me to my next question which is how old were these men? I'm on the younger side for swinging it seems (though that changes a bit more every year heh) but you may have just had a bad run of guys who couldn't get it up.

I doubt its an attraction thing. I know when either myself or my wife isn't attracted to the other couple we don't take one of the team and play and thats pretty typical from what we can tell.

Which brings me to the last point. It seems a lot of men DO have this issue while swinging. Again I don't understand it, but its a common question/complaint. I'm guessing you have just had some bad luck.