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Old 10-10-2005, 01:53 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Cool Re: Question for single guys

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Originally Posted by xxoticangel
We always read the posting of "eternallysingle" and "curiousagain" for their thoughts on being single in the swinging world. As we are mainly MFM swingers their input has been a great help. Now I have a question specifically for the single men that visit here. Couples, if you have had similar expierences or have something to contribute please do so also.

Scenario:
You are a single male that is expierenced in the lifestyle and have played with (more than once) and are comfortable with a couple. He contacts you and explains that the wife has a fantasy of playing with more than two men at once. He asks if you know someone that would be interested in joining the current MFM "relationship" you now share.

Question:
How would you respond to this request? Would you be offended or honored to be trusted enough to pick a potential playmate? Can you think of a better way to word the request without it sounding so much like he's looking to buy cattle?

I haven't done this yet because everyway I have tried to pharase the request it came out sounding like I was a desprite husband trying to find a hooker in a strange town on a Saturday night.
I have been asked that very question, and I do not take offense to it, and yes I am flattered to be asked. I think your "verbage" sounds fine, I do not understand why your "single" male play mate would take offense to the question.

Good luck, I hope your wife has her fantasy fullfilled .

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