[jeff n nikki]

Well 1st off alcohol and erections dont usually go together..and they most certainly dont if you are nervous and uncomfortable! Nikki and I have been swinging on and off for 10 years..one thing for sure is we would rather get COMFORTABLE with a couple(or sf) over a period of time before we "go all the way"..that doesnt mean there isnt any teasing,play or oral etc! I personally perfrom much better if I have soft played with the female over a long period of time(flirting,touching,dancing,kissing,teasing,ora l etc...)....once you feel TOTALLY CONFORTABLE and by this point dying to fuck her(because of 3 months of teasing lol) you shouldnt have problems with wood! find a local swing club that offers on and off premise! goto some meetngreets! then eventually some house and hotel parties.find some people you really click with and build it up slowly over months even! then when you guys finally get down to it you should be relaxed enough and at a very comfortable level!...Nikki and I run the blueflame swing club and we always tell people that clubs are the best place for swingers! with private meetings there is way too much 1 on 1 pressure!! goto parties! get to know some people! then eventually youll find the amazing experiances you crave and havent had yet!..as far as alcohol goes??? I dont drink at swing parties anymore because of the "whiskey dick" problem! you did nothing wrong! alcohol and nervousness and stress caused the erection problems!