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Am I crazy, or does anyone else see where this is going? With what Seriously is suggesting is another adult, female love relationship (friend-love, whatever) that could easily deepen. And yes, he could potentially see this other woman as "wife" material and if she can suck a cock better than me...
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Dearest Tempest...no you are not...it sounds like Seriously is looking for justification for what he is contemplating doing and using this board to get it. He nicely "omitted" very relevant items painting you as the uncaring and philandering spouse.
I would advise him to consider all he has to loose by courting this woman ( since she isn't aware of the lifestyle she is acting as an adulteress and courting your husband)
I am a tad ticked at him honestly... I don't know what to tell you to do... as you are communicating on every level...and he is miss communicating and self justifying ... shame on him...
All I can hope is, he posted it here hoping you would read it and maybe, we can surmise that he wanted you to find it. What you do with the information is up to you... but it would seem pertinent to CYA and to return to a traditional marriage arraignment until such time as the other woman is irradicated and the problem has a solution.
I for one think I would take the time to call the other woman and let her know... you are not welcome. But then again...I tend to prefer a confrontation to being screwed royally in silence and eventually humiliated in public. Then at least I feel, I defended myself and my territory. Cheaters tend to shun the light of day. Outing them is the only way to stop them...they thrive in secret.
Mr. Body and I had a single female long ago who I suspected of trying the same thing... I called her on it...she was pissed at me and he was pissed at me( I came to the board with it for advice, too) ....I dealt with the fallout and flat out asked him which he preferred- to argue the point or to preserve our relationship ? We are fine...she is gone...but we took a long time off to work it out.
Best wishes hon... for the record... I am on your side. He blew it with me when it became apparent how he ommitted some critical elements. He sure knows how to “spin” the story to make it come out sympathtic for him.
Ms. bodyscape02